It's OK

You may very well never come to fully understand another persons trajectory in life

But if you open your heart you will always understand

Their joys

Their pains

Their suffering

Maybe it's pretentious

Silly and/or

Well deserved pain

You think they are suffering

But tell me

If someone where to look at your pain
And say the exact same thing about yours

Would it still invalidate it?

Would it no longer exist?

Would your pain no longer have any value simply

Because someone doesn't think it does?

No! So then.... (extrapolate please)

Can you open you're eyes to it.

Limited free will?

We have free will

In that we get to chose

Who and what we dedicate our lives to at any given time

Money

Children

Work

Drugs

Partner

God

Science/Academia

Etc.

But....

Once that conscious (or unconscious) choice has been made

Do we then give up our free will

to that thing?

Be it an addiction

A cause

A person

A God

It's the most beautiful thing really

To have the burden of free will lifted 

The weight of wrong and right

Of constant judgement by ourselves and others

When you follow your heart

Follow the path of love

Which truly is the path of least resistance

(When you get out of your own way)

It all becomes so easy

But because you don't normally know ahead of time

What must be done

You never know what will be asked of you.

So then it still remains always your choice to follow your hearts call

So my main question is....

When you follow God's path

Are you truly and completely relinquishing your free will?

I suppose that can be seen as perhaps being the case

But as long as we are true to ourselves

True to our beliefs

Then we will always have free will to fall back on; to question. 

When we need/if we need

It isn't blindly doing what we believe God would want

With no say in the matter of our own;

rather I believe It is quite the opposite

It's reflecting on what our hearts desire is

What love dictates for us; through us

And doing that

BY CHOICE

As best we can

As much as we can

When we can; which theoretically should be always

Therefor I believe that falls in the free will zone; so.....

Free will yourself some peace and happiness

I dare ya!