Monday, September 19, 2016

I hope my children are never gay

Now before you criticizing me. Listen*


What I mean is that

I want them to love

And commit to love

And I don't want them to ever close themselves off to love

When you say

I can/will/only want to

Love women/men whatever

You have closed yourself off to loving a giant sector of people

Maybe even someone who could have made your life spectacular 

Enriched it beyond belief**

So why label yourself 

Straight

Gay

Unless you absolutely cringe at the thought of touching a specific said sex

Which in my opinion is something that should be thoroughly examine

If so

For possible signs of past abuse or trauma

That kind of hate just doesn't seem natural to me

We are all beautiful creatures of God

That we were meant to be paired off into male/female

While still debated by some

Seems ludicrous to me

Because unions outside of those parameters seems to have been happening as far back as we can go to figure these things out. 

Similar to prostitution

I just don't see why fight against something people want

Something that doesn't harm anyone per se

We aren't talking child abuse

We are talking consenting adults

So in that sense

The sense that as consenting adults

When my children grow to be them

I want them to always feel free to love whomever they chose

However they chose to

For as long as they have chosen to

And never close themselves off to love

No matter how it comes. 

When it comes

And they will know for themselves when that is

Will these thoughts one day bite me in the butt?

Maybe

But it isn't my life/love to chose anyway

It's theirs

And if they are happy

Truly happy

Then what better thing is there 

But to be happy for them. 



*Make it a point to always listen closely

Heart and mind open

Before you jump down someone's throat

You may find you don't have the need to after all

Or you may find sympathy and compassion for the persons view 

No matter how askew

**not monetarily; although that doesn't mean that can't also be true I suppose. 

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