Falling in love

I'm not speaking for all girls

Or any other person here

Except for me

But from my own experience

Falling in love happens two way

Either at first sight

Like when you really get a close look at someone

And feel like you can see

into the depths of their entire being

Or slowly

Over time

With small gestures

With deep heartfelt moments

Shared and enjoyed mutually

Where you feel the persons vulnerability

And start to let yours show too

And if those doors close

They aren't impossible to open again

But they do need mending

Forgiving

Building again

The great thing is that in order to repair

That broken in a true love

Only one party needs to put in the work

to get it going again

And slowly

Gradually

If your lucky

And persistent

With giving love

With giving space

With giving hope

The other person will open up to it again

If it was truly ever there to begin with

Totally different story if it was never there

To begin with